Are You Boxing Yourself In?
I graduated from a predominantly white university, but many of my fellow black classmates and I often joked about having a very “black” college experience.
Many of us were exclusively involved in black student organizations and black Greek life; lived in the “black” residence halls; took lots of the African American Studies and African Studies classes; wrote for and read “black” campus publications; spent lots of time at the Black Cultural Center or on “the Yard”; studied abroad in Africa; and so on and so on. A big joke was that so many black students attended summer school in comparison to white students that the university became an HBCU in the summer.
The feeling of attending a university within a university was somewhat comical – and honestly, comforting at times, but it was sometimes much more damaging for many black students. The truth is that – like in the real world – my university’s various black communities didn’t always have access to information that would help students maximize their college experiences. Countless students missed out on scholarships, lectures, research opportunities, fellowships, internships, study abroad experiences and numerous other privileges because their peer groups and involvements lacked diversity. And after graduation, they suffered, compared to those who were “in the know” because their resumes weren’t as competitive, thus further contributing to the gap between the haves and the have nots.
This is often a problem in the professional world also – particularly in metropolitan areas where it’s possible to work without coming in contact with people of an opposite race or other groups. We’ve discussed the benefits of getting involved with other black professionals in “Get Connected,” but don’t let your interactions be so monotonous that you bind yourself from getting where you could professionally. Volunteer for committees that will expose you to new networking opportunities, join multiple professional organizations or go to lunch with someone else. You never know who may be the messenger to provide you with the knowledge you need to get where you’re trying to go.



Comment by Martin Lindsey on 25 May 2007:
Great points Eugene. I grew up in a Black neighborhood in St. Louis and graduated from Tuskegee University but I learned early on that networking is networking and connections are connections no matter what direction they are coming from.
Anyone can be a friend who looks out for you purely just because of who you are and the character impression you make on them.
So, even as a lover of Black institutions of all sorts, I’ve learned not to be narrow minded about opportunity. You never know who will be providing it. And definitely don’t be a conspiracy theorist and try to guess people’s underlying motivations. First of all you can’t do it and secondly who cares. Like one of my favorite church songs says, “What God has for me, it is for me.” He rules us all, not just African Americans.
Continue to urge young Black collegians everywhere, be they at HBCU’s or other campuses, to soak up everything that looks like a connection during their co-ed years. You never know who you’ll bump into years down the road 10, 20 or 30 years from now, who used to be a school mate or intern buddy between the ages of 18 and 22, who can open a door for you later. Or maybe you’ll be the one.
Happy holiday weekend to all of you at the YBP crew.
Marty