Do they get it? (How a Democrat ends up voting Republican)
By Raqiyyah Pippins, a DC Attorney and past NBLSA Chair (reprinted with permission)
I want to start off by saying, CONGRATULATIONS to all of the Obama supporters. It has been a long campaign and I am elated to watch so many people I care about have the opportunity to see someone they were passionate about become the Democratic nominee.
As we “prepare,” however, to “unify” the party in an effort to “take back” the white house in January 2009, something has called on me to write this note.
I remember sitting in a living room full of African American women Hillary supporters this past Tuesday as the results came in. We sat in anticipation of the speeches, waiting to hear the words of McCain, Obama, and our beloved HRC. I remember us sitting there in awe of Hillary while she gave her speech: poised, confident, and sincere. I remember the glee we felt when McCain, early on in his speech, acknowledged HRC’s mistreatment in the media, and commented on her passion for people and the honor he feels to have her as a friend. And I remember how disappointed we were in Obama’s decision to lightly address her toward the middle of his address.
But what I really remember is coming home that night turning on MSNBC and CNN, and watching them talk about how horrible McCain’s speech was, praise Obama and crucify Hillary…. for not being gracious enough, for not “fully” conceding, for not letting Obama have his night, and for not knowing when to “roll over and die.” I watched this alternate universe discuss the same events I thought I had seen… and I was confused.
I kept asking myself, “were we all watching the same thing?” I liked McCain’s speech (despite the ugly green background and his horrific smile (he’s really going to have to work on that, lol)). I loved Hillary’s speech. I heard her be gracious during her remarks, and congratulate Obama and his supporters almost immediately on a wonderful campaign. And I heard Obama fail to even acknowledge her until 15 minutes into his.
And yet I was sitting there watching CNN and MSNBC recount a night that was completely different than ANYTHING I had experienced… with not ONE of their commentators expressing anything close to how the night’s events had made me feel.
And so I turned to FOX.
It was at that moment… after having several of my friends and colleagues vent to me about how “offended” they were by Hillary’s speech… It was at that moment, after digesting an hour of what were supposed to be “my” news stations say absolutely nothing that sounded like or validated me… It was at that moment, when I flipped to Fox for the umpthundreth time during this primary season and realized this was the only station that sounded half way objective to me, that I realized how Democrats end up voting Republican…
they start saying to themselves: this “new” Democratic party doesn’t speak for, to, or care to understand me.
I ran across an op-ed piece today, written by Geraldine Ferraro, and for the first time in weeks I found someone who understood me. In her piece she wrote:
Here we are at the end of the primary season, and the effects of racism and sexism on the campaign have resulted in a split within the Democratic Party that will not be easy to heal before election day. Perhaps it’s because neither the Barack Obama campaign nor the media seem to understand what is at the heart of the anger on the part of women who feel that Hillary Clinton was treated unfairly because she is a woman or what is fueling the concern of Reagan Democrats for whom sexism isn’t an issue, but reverse racism is.
The reaction to the questions being raised has been not to listen to the message and try to find out how to deal with the problem, but rather to denigrate the messenger. Sore loser, petty, silly, vengeful are words that have dominated the headlines. But scolding and name calling don’t resolve disputes. The truth is that tens of thousands of women have watched how Clinton has been treated and are not happy. We feel that if society can allow sexism to impact a woman’s candidacy to deny her the presidency, it sends a direct signal that sexism is OK in all of society.
I’m black… but I’m also one of those women that feels Hillary was treated unfairly because she was a woman. I’m young, but I am one of those people who got tired of hearing anyone who raised that point called vengeful, silly, petty, or a sore loser. I am one of those thousands of Democrats who are not happy. And what scares me is that I’m not sure I think the “new” leaders of the party, or the spokesmen, posing as journalists, chosen to voice the views of the party in the media, “get it,” or me.
Lately, I’ve heard a lot of talk about what “Hillary” needs to do to “unify,” the party. Everywhere I turn I see articles talking about how much Hillary needs to stump for Obama, be gracious to Obama, and bring her people to Obama. But what I want to say is that “unity,” at least for me, is going to take more than that. It’s going to take me hearing Obama and his campaign “concede” that their was sexism in this campaign. It’s going to take me hearing him say that Hillary was “mistreated” throughout this primary season. And it’s going to take his supporters referring to her as something other than b%tch, c*unt, or devil lacking human decency.
Because when I was watching McCain speak last Tuesday, funny smile, and ugly green background or not, he caught my ear… and he caught it because he knew enough to at least pretend like he “gets it…”
Lucky for Obama, I a) could never “disgrace” my family by not voting for the “first black presidential nominee” and b) live in dc where he’s going to win anyway.
But given the millions of HRC supporters who aren’t black and/or don’t live in dc, I just hope “my” party “gets it” too before its too late….
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