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Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows CoverIT’S A HOLIDAY (ok not really, but to some it is)!!!

I know, I know. As an avid Harry Potter fan I feel it would be unfair if I didn’t make a post about this marvelous and much anticipated event.

It is ending…..Harry’s adventures are coming to a close and at last all our questions will be answered. It is a time of sadness and enjoyment. I, personally, love being a part of history. There is so much going on as the clock edges closer to release time (12:01am)midnight parties at your local bookstores, and if you’re in Chicagoland you might want to check this out! I wish I could go, because it looks amazing!!

Unlike past book releases I have not allowed myself to get caught up in the usual rumors and hype before this book comes out. I started to read the “review” in The New York Times , but thankfully stopped once I realized it had spoilers in it!! I want to go in this book fresh, and ready for all the action. As I stand in line tonight at midnight anxiously awaiting to get my book I will allow myself to get swept up in the moment, and realize I am making history.

Lastly, I just have one request. If you finish the book quickly, please don’t ruin it for others!

Enjoy the ride. Happy Reading!

Young Black Professional Guide Coachella 2007One of my favorite parts of summer is the opportunity to attend music festivals. Some of the big ones are: Coachella held in L.A. near the end of April, Bonnaroo held in Tennessee mid-June, Summer Fest held in Milwaukee last week in June through the 4th weekend, Essence Music Festival held in New Orleans at the beginning of July, and Lollapalooza first weekend in August in Chicago. Having attended a few of these festivals I wanted to encourage music heads to go.

When one decides to attend one of these massive concerts how comfortably you plan to sleep should be the main focus. Most venues have a hotel with shuttle bus taking concertgoers back and forth, an RV campground, and a tent campground. I don’t mind getting a little dirty, but I do need: my A.C. (I have allergies!), electricity, non-public toliet, cheap food, and to be within walking distance of the shows. So when I attended Bonnaroo in an RV that was the best option for me, which allowed me to have these amenities with my friends at a reasonable cost. It all depends on how much you want to spend on your adventure. I would highly recommend you bring clothing and shoes you don’t care about destroying, a bathing suit, sunscreen, and tons of WATER!!! Other costs to conisder include: transportation, food and beverage, tickets, souveniers, bug spray, CD’s/DVD’s, and whatever else your heart may desire.

My sister calls me a hippie whenever I describe my love ofYoung Black Professional Guide Tom Morello festivals, and who knows… maybe I am. However, there is something to consider when you have thousands of people in one place all there to have a good time listening to great music. It is an amazing feeling. Can you think of another time when there is a mass of people peacefully enjoying each other? Another great reason to attend aside from the experience is knocking out acts you havent been able/willing to pay to see thus far, for one price. Last year I saw great shows (Common, Blackalicious, Atmosphere, Damien Marley, Tom Petty, Radiohead and more for $200!!) took pictures, went backstage, enjoyed exposure to bands/acts not within my favorite generes, and met all kinds of people for the price of what it would have been to see 4 acts. If you still decide that you don’t want to attend these fests, because they’re too expensive, then I suggest that you try something cheaper. Many cities have these types of activities going on throughout the summer, such as Chicagos’s Blues Fest, Jazz Fest or Taste. They all have music, food and fun, and many are free or under $20.

As we embark on summer I encourage you to attend a festival at least once in your life. It’s a great place to relax and de-stress yourself. Lose yourself in the moment. Enjoy the peaceful vibe and of course, Be Safe.

Young Black Professional Guide to Bikram Yoga If you’re living anywhere north of Kentucky this week you’ll notice that we’re slowly thawing out (looking out my windows I can see that Lake Michigan is less of a glacier!). It is around this time of the year that we begin to realize we may have put on some winter weight. I know I’m guilty of this with my birthday, Christmas and New Years all occurring the last 3 weeks in the year. It’s even harder to motivate yourself to work out when there is a blizzard going on and you don’t have access to a gym inside of your residence. So I came to a crossroads as the reality hit that winter is almost over, spring is on the way. I knew I desperately needed to find something I enjoyed doing and wouldn’t mind putting into my routine to get my “summer body back”. I found the answer in Bikram Yoga.

My co-worker and my boyfriend both did Bikram last summer. I wanted to, but was unable to do so. So last week I decided to give it a shot. Bikram is INTENSE exercise and should not be done for those who tire easily and have an aversion to sweating and working hard. The general gist is this: you go do 26 poses within a 90 minute time frame in 105-115 degree heat. The reason for the heat is so that you are more flexible and you sweat the toxins out. When you attend your first class they encourage you to sit or lie down if you feel dizzy, faint, weak or light-headed (a normal reaction to the heat). They also recommend you have your mat in the back rows so you can watch all the yogi’s who can do the poses correctly. As you begin with a simple breathing exercise you start to sweat. I’m not kidding. The further you get into the class the more sweaty you will become. Note: this class is NOT for those who don’t want their hair to look jacked up- you will sweat through all of your clothing to the point you can wring it out afterwards. As my boyfriend had described to me there will come a point during the class where you will realize “this is hard as hell and it really sucks!!” I got to that point, but I kept going and ended strong. How could you not after you already accepted the challenge?

The results of my hard work began to pay off almost immediately. I left the class feeling energized rather than exhausted like I do after other workouts. When I tried it one morning last week I was in an AMAZING mood that lasted for most of the workday. By Friday I made it through an entire class without taking any breaks. I am also more aware and considerate about what I put into my body so I have inadvertently put myself on a diet causing my next big accomplishment of the Bikram: my weight loss of 13lbs in my first week!! I know, that after hearing that many YBPs are going to jump at the chance to do the yoga. Here is my word of caution: don’t use my testimonial as a guarantee for losing weight. It will come over time as it does with anything. Try the yoga as something that ties the mental, physical, and spiritual together. It is a time to focus completely on yourself for 90 minutes. In todays hectic world it’s nice to have a comfortable place to relax, workout, and focus on YOU.

Going along with this weeks theme of “New Year-New You,” I wanted to tell all you YBPs about an event I’m attending tomorrow at my church for the first time called the Burning Bowl. Every first Friday of the year Chicago’s Christ Universal Temple, located on 119th and Ashland, hosts its annual Burning Bowl. The purpose of the bowl is to ask God for blessings. The process is simple and my mother has been attending for year, and she swears the process works.

What you do is simple you (write two copies) a letter to God asking him for all the blessings you want in the following year: good health, wealth, happiness, financial stability etc. One thing you do need to make sure you include is specifics. For example don’t just say I want a better job. Say “I want a job that pays me $____ (more or the actual amount). The more specific you are the more you accurate your blessing. The second part of your letter needs to include the things you want God to remove from your life, for example, sickness, negativity of various forms, and any other problem that you have. After this has been done as a church we all pray over the letters and we proceed to burn them. Your other copy of the letter is left in the prayer room to prayed over year-round.
I am personally excited to attend the Burning Bowl, because I feel as I get older there are less and less things that I have control over and getting to church may help. I feel this will be a great step in getting myself to go back to church- something my boyfriend and I have been attempting to do. Tonight we’re going to write our letters and tomorrow we will join my parents in sending all our wants, needs, desires to God. I’ll post later this weekend to let you all know how the bowl went. Remember, that just because you may not be in Chicago you can have your own Burning Bowl, and expect GREATNESS in 2007!!!


The first time I heard about the Chicago’s Old Town Ale House, located in Old Town on the corner of North Avenue and Weiland Street (near Wells Street and Second City), was from a friend who lived in my neighborhood when I asked of cool spots to check out. Then one Friday night my coworker Veronica and I decided to go check it out because we couldn’t get into Castaways due to a private party. We walked in and were immediately taken back by the chill vibe the place exuded.

One of the Ale House’s strongest appeals is its atmosphere. The décor is also unique to the Ale House and its regulars. There are portraits of the regulars covering the walls. Upon inquiry I discovered that it was the owner, Bruce, who paints the portraits himself. The portraits littering above the actual bar show many of the regulars in compromising situations, which makes them all the more fun to look at when the real person is sitting next to you (trust that they are an interesting person to talk to if they can make it up to wall status…). We ended up staying there for a few rounds watching the Sox game (it’s a Sox bar on the Northside!!!) and decided we had to come back. It was great, the people were great, the bartender bought us lots of shots, we wanted to make the wall why not come back??

This is a come and chill with your friends and knock back a few or get blasted destination.

A few days later Veronica and I were planning our next Ale House Outing as my boss was walking by, and asked him if he’d like to go. He stopped mid-stride and said “WHAT about the OLD TOWN ALE HOUSE?!?!!!” We told him we were going, and that we really liked it. He sat down and started talking about how he used to hang out there during the 60’s. He said his picture was on the wall!! We were in awe. He told us that during the filming of the Blues Brothers Belushi used to drink there. He joined us there later and told us where the risqué portraits are now there used to be a large painting of a naked woman lying on a couch. Then he pointed out various folks on the wall that he used to hang out with. I later found out my own father used to kick it at the Ale House when he lived near it!! The Old Town Ale House is one of the dopest places in the city. You need to experience it.

The Ale House has a real life “Cheers-y” feel. Literally everyone there knows your name. The owner is always hanging out at the bar. He’s a very nice, funny, welcoming, and accommodating gentleman, who loves to befriend his patrons. It is always cozy, and did I forget to mention the drinks are reasonable and strong?!! My drink of choice is a Jack and diet…at the Ale House it only runs me $6.00. The bartenders are an eclectic group, and they’re always in the mood to shoot the shit with the patrons. They also make one mean Cadillac margarita. The jukebox only plays jazz or opera, adding to the already relaxing atmosphere. I feel with all my praise I should warn you all: this is not a bar for those of you looking to go out and get ass. This is a come and chill with your friends and knock back a few or get blasted destination. I was once told I was too young (I just turned 25) to hang out there.. For me that adds to the appeal. You never know what type of person you’re going to meet there. You do know they will fall into the following criteria:

· they will not be an asshole looking to start a fight ( I have never seen a fight there in my 6 months of frequenting)
· they will most likely be in the 30+ age range
· they will be courteous
· they might want to talk to you and even buy you a drink

When I told Bruce that I was going to write and article about his bar for YBP he was really excited and enthusiastic about the exposure. When I told him to expect more people of color to be frequenting his bar, he smiled and said “Great!! You get two gold stars for that one!! (In my quest to make the wall) We’re very open here!!”

I’ll see ya there.

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