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Chris-Tia Donaldson is on a mission to make sure that every black woman knows that natural – hair or otherwise – is beautiful.  She is the author of the recent book, “Thank God I’m Natural: The Ultimate Guide to Caring for and Maintaining Natural Hair,” which  includes tips for other black women who want to learn how to maintain natural hair.

“Our hair-grooming habits are reflective of our history, and it affects how we go about our daily lives,” she said in a previous interview. “Thankfully, I learned that I am much more than my hair, and I take better care of my hair now.”

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Sistas, I’m just gonna put it out there: there’s nothing wrong with you, your hair, your dating criteria (no matter how shallow people call you), or your weight. We are just not getting married in the same rates that we used to.

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Desiree Rogers

Desiree Rogers

Name: Desiree Rogers
New Job: White House Social Secretary

Super power: Party! Party! Party! Rogers is super social butterfly, big on the socialite scene in Chicago with her business connections and ability to have a good time

Obama Connection: Michelle Obama
From The Washington Post:

Rogers, 49, is a friend of Michelle and President-elect Barack Obama’s, and a leader in Chicago corporate and civic circles; her appointment signals that the first couple consider the job crucial to how they introduce themselves to the country and the globe. She was a major fundraiser for Obama.

Claim to fame: Rogers was most recently with Allstate Financial, where she was “creating a social network of clients and consumers.” She was also once president of Peoples Gas and North Shore Gas.
From the Chicago Tribune:

Rogers, who studied at Wellesley College and later earned an MBA from Harvard, was once married to Chicagoan John Rogers, Ariel Capital Management chief and another close Obama friend and fundraiser. Her first highly visible post was in state government. She managed the lottery for then-governor Jim Edgar in the ’90s, appearing on TV giving away pots of money.

Why she’s fabulous: According to Obama friend Valerie Jarrett — “This appointment sends a strong me message that the Obamas want to use the White House strategically, to maximize its use in a way that is consistent with their philosophy — [to] open it to a broader range of people, ” said Valerie Jarrett, an Obama intimate and friend of Rogers’s who also will work in the White House. “Desirée is a heavy hitter — she comes with her own range of contacts from around the country. She’s close to Michelle and she knows everyone who will be working in the West Wing, so she will be able to create a synergy.”

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Valerie Jarrett

Name: Valerie Jarrett
New Job:
White House Senior Adviser

Super power: Tenacious Charm and Outward Brilliance. She also managed to smooth things over with Clinton supporters, bringing them under the fold after the contentious primary race and she works as Obama’s outreach to leaders within the black community.

Obama Connection: She’s a close and personal friend/mentor of Michelle, then later Barack
From The New York Times:

“I can count on someone like Valerie to take my hand and say, You need to think about these three things,” Mrs. Obama said. “Like a mom, a big sister, I trust her implicitly.”

Claim to fame: “A protégée of Mayor Richard M. Daley

Why she’s fabulous: While new to Washington she’s ready to hit the ground running in an effort to avoid the pratfalls that hindered hometown heroes like herself from making it in the Capitol. She’s tiny, but mighty, mighty powerful, in spite of being “underestimated” due to her ethnicity, gender, height, pixie haircut, being the only black woman in the boardroom and the fact that she’s very “girlish” with a “singsong voice and suits that earned her a recent profile in Vogue.” (NYT)

Susan Rice

Susan Rice

Name: Susan Rice
Potential Role: Ambassador to the United Nations

Super power: Anti-Genocide Warrior. From the International Herald Tribune:

The choice of Rice to represent t he United States before the United Nations will make her one of the most visible faces of the Obama administration to the outside world aside from Clinton. It will also send to the world organization a prominent and forceful advocate of stronger action, including military force if necessary, to stop mass killings like those in the Darfur region of Sudan in recent years.

Obama Connection: She’s a warrior. She needed no such connections! Actually, she’s a former Clintonite who switched sides.

Claim to fame: She’s considered brilliant and tough. Writes the International Herald Tribune:

If confirmed, Rice at 44 would be the second-youngest ambassador to the United Nations. A Rhodes scholar who earned a doctorate in international relations at Oxford University, she joined Bill Clinton’s National Security Council staff in 1993 before rising to assistant secretary of state for African affairs at age 32. When Obama decided to run for president, she signed up as one of his top advisers, much to the consternation of the Clinton camp, which resented what it saw as a defection. Some colleagues from her Clinton and Obama days said Rice can be blunt and unafraid to “mix it up,” as one put it, on behalf of issues she cares about. Rice herself acknowledges a certain impatience at times. Admirers said she is a good listener and able to stand up to strong personalities, including foreign autocrats and militants in volatile regions of the world. “Susan certainly is toug h, and she’s tough in exactly the right way,” said Strobe Talbott, a former deputy secretary of state and now president of the Brookings Institution, where Rice has worked in recent years. “She’s intellectually tough, she’s tough in her approach to how the policymaking process should work and she will be very effective as a diplomat.”

Why she’s fabulous: Goodness, she wants to stop genocide in Darfur in the Sudan. That makes her fabulous enough. Good luck to her on that. She’s also not John Bolton, Bush’s former recess appointment as Ambassador to the UN. Bolton, like much of Bush and Co., didn’t believe in the purpose of the UN or giving it any power — real or perceived. Therefore they sent a man to work at frustrating and undermining the organization our country help found and headquarters. (He’s already bitching over Obama elevating the ambassadorship back to a cabinet level20position as it was under President Bill Clinton.) Under the long list of reasons why the world hates us, you will find John Bolton’s name. Rice is going to get a standing ovation just for not being him.

I learned something today. Relearned, that is. I don’t know anything.

I read an op-ed piece in the New York Times, Gay Marriage and a Moral Minority by Charles M. Blow, and my eyes opened, looking out on what should not have been new information.

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Complexities of the Heart

I want to start by saying I have always had this sense of a female’s power. Truly, I think the realized female is the most powerful person on the planet. Women are the backbone of society. You are the teachers (71% in 2004), you are the mothers and grandmothers (by default of course, but also in action. You more profoundly embody those roles than anyone else in their respective roles), you are the missionary models, and even when not on the pulpit (either because you are not allowed, or just not there yet) you are the ministers. Women made up 92.3% of nurses in 2005.

I am guessing you made up most of the the black voters this year, too. In 2004, you were 58% of the black vote (60% in 2000). So your voice and your concerns matter. This year, 70% of black voters supported Proposition 8 in CA and 75% of black women voted for it (Mr. Blow points out there weren’t enough black men in the survey to provide a reliable percentage for them. However, one can mathematically deduce that of the raw number of survey respondents, nearly twice as many black women said that they voted for it than black men). He goes on to offer theories for why that may be: (excerpting from the article)

  1. Blacks are much more likely than whites to attend church, according to a Gallup report, and black women are much more likely to attend church than black men … weekly church attendance among black 12th graders rose 26 percent from 1993 to 2006 … it is probably safe to assume that many of them were going to church with their mothers since Child Trends reported that around the time that they were born, nearly 70 percent of all black children were born to single mothers.
  2. This high rate of church attendance by blacks informs a very conservative moral view.
  3. Marriage can be a sore subject for black women in general. According to 2007 Census Bureau data, black women are the least likely of all women to be married and the most likely to be divorced. Women who can’t find a man to marry might not be thrilled about the idea of men marrying each other … comparing the struggles of legalizing interracial marriage with those to legalize gay marriage is a bad idea. Many black women do not seem to be big fans of interracial marriage either. They’re the least likely of all groups to intermarry, and many don’t look kindly on the black men who intermarry at nearly three times the rate that they do.

The article goes further into the effectiveness of religious debate, the cruel irony of ardent sexual morality vs. pregnancies and STD infection, and abortion rates.

There are no coincidences, no mistakes, and there is a gift and opportunity in everything, even seeming bad news. For the last few weeks I have been focused on this gay marriage issue. It affects me a lot. This article reminded me that there are other forgotten populations, too. We cannot afford to disparage them either.

So, as gays and allies across the country get together to organize our new efforts (here in Miami it is a “Hearts and Minds” campaign), we will surely consider what this kind of information means in terms of how, where and to whom we deliver information. Still, I see greater opportunity.

One way I will have to look at this issue is understanding that the hearts and minds of my sisters may have been affected by my request to validate a commitment to another man. I had never considered that. On some level, I am an example of what has eluded them. One of my closest friends, a beautiful black woman that a colleague described as “Michelle Obama-like,” frequently calls me a “waste.” I get that. And on some level, I wish I could be that figure in a black community of heterosexual marriage, family, and life-building; however, that is not my call (nor my choice, but that is a different article).

So what I cannot give in terms of physical presence, provision and expression, I must give in attention. I must give in education and support, to make sure you remain the strong, infinitely and (I insist!) specially powerful creatures you are. I think we all must, but I have to start with me. You remain our mothers, our grandmothers, our teachers, our caretakers, our hope and so much a part of my strength. As much as I deserve the right and the choice to have my love and commitment solidified and recognized by the government, you deserve the resources and a pool of eligible goodness to go along with the access to those rights. You deserve a goverment and leaders who recognize that education gaps and a prison mentality does not contribute to anything, and definitely not your dreams. It is time we all stood up for you, too. No life, no love, no hope left behind.

HIV/AIDs is knocking on the door of black america and too many of us have let him in. We have been so worried about AIDS in Africa that we let that joker tip toe through the foyer. I certainly hope you and yours are not directly affected by HIV/AIDS, but if you are a black american, the likelihood is unfortunately high. The AIDS epidemic among African-Americans in some parts of the U.S. is as widespread as in some countries in Africa, according to a report out July 29 and reported by CNN.

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The HIV Epidemic

Interestingly, the vast majority of black women with AIDS live in the South or Northeast. Our “go-to” for health-related statistics, the CDC, has “African-Americans” as the first topic on the HIV/AIDS website. Wow, what a reality check! Check out these CDC statistics from 2005.

What is going on with my people? How is this happening? AIDS researchers do not have strong evidence to support an explanation. What we do know is that one in every two people living with HIV is black! Peter Jennings reported in 2006 that black women are 23 times more likely to be diagnosed with AIDS than white women. In 2001, black women were 14 times more likely to die of AIDS than white women (We may be at 15 to 16 times in 2008).

Excuse my French, but what the hell?

Share with your friends and associates that AIDS remains the leading cause of death among black women between ages 25 and 34. It’s the second-leading cause of death in black men 35-44. This is all very alarming. What’s even more alarming is that some practitioners in the health care sector who don’t understand this epidemic are clueless.

Several years ago, I went to my primary care physician whose practice is affiliated with Duke University Medical Center. The physician is Asian and I had seen her once before for an internal medicine checkup. I like to get all my tests done — cholesterol, diabetes, thyroid, etc. — when I see an internist annually. I, matter-of-factly, asked her for an HIV test. She responded that she would not give me one because I do not fit the socioeconomic status of someone with HIV.

Yes, you read this correctly.

She was dead serious. She even indicated that my insurance would not pay for it because of that reason. I wanted to take her notepad and bop her over the head to knock some sense into her. Instead, I educated her on the aforementioned statistics. I took the test (insurance covered 100%) and am happy that I was persistent at a very vulnerable time. However, to this day I can not believe the ignorance related to black women and HIV. Remember when Dick Cheney and John Edwards were asked the question about the epidemic of AIDS among black women at a vice-presidential debate in 2004 and they looked like 3 year olds would look if asked to discuss the origin of monkeys. How insignificant and ignored did black women feel at that moment?

My question is, what contributes to black women contracting HIV/AIDS at such an increased rate? Is it poverty, unprotected sex, lack of education about HIV/AIDS, low-quality health care, drugs, mulitple sexual partners, lack of morals, incarceration of black men, mate “on the down low”, or failure to use condoms? Why are WE getting kicked by the Black Ninja so hard? Haven’t black americans suffered enough? Here are a couple of things we need to contemplate:

Prevention is the solution for infection.

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AIDS Awareness Ribbon

We need to open up about the disease and talk to family and friends about this epidemic. We are too conservative when it comes to this disease. Yes, people are having premarital sex, sex outside of marriages and bisexual relations. Stop the stigma so people can get the support they need. We must have culturally specific prevention programs that are pervasive in our communities, churches, and health clinics. Tell our young boys to wear that raincoat…everytime!

An infrastructure for systematic testing should be implemented.

As we know, a disproportionate number of black men are in prison. Prisons have AIDS infection rates 5 times higher than the general population. Many men go to prison HIV negative, but come out HIV positive (the reason why is another lengthy discussion). A majority of these released prisoners do not know their HIV status. When these men are released from prison, they are welcomed by the women who waited for them and subsequently infect them unknowingly. There needs to be a comprehensive national testing and treatment for released inmates.

I can go on and on about remedies for what ails us as we confront this enormous challenge. Help me out, what can we do to save our sisters and brothers?

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