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A few nights ago (in a long, rambling, almost tearful email), I gave up talking about the election. A friend sent me a forward quoting Obama on Meet the Press saying “together [Michelle] and I have attended several flag burning ceremonies in the past.”

Anyone who has ever heard Obama speak would have known he didn’t say it. The diction and grammar in the piece were terrible. I shared with my friend that believing the report presumes the most respected papers in the nation no longer research or accurately report on the candidates, let alone offer sound endorsements. It would also require the assumption that the governmental infrastructure, people, and traditions of this country were so weak that they could be overcome and devastated with one man’s election to the presidency. Colin Powell, Oprah Winfrey, Bill Clinton, Jimmy Carter, Warren Buffett, and Ben Bernanke would have to be unmitigated idiots or anti-American conspirators to endorse a man they couldn’t trust to defend, love and honor this country. Believe them or the uninformed individual who drafted that email?

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Darkest Before Daybreak

I had forgotten my own advice though, however briefly. I had forgotten to check in with Source. Fortunately, a friend I shared my response with reminded me that night is darkest just before daybreak. He reminded me that all the hatred we are seeing and the rigid, fearful cry for the familiar signal a desperate grasping for a consciousness that is fading. The politics of separation and laissez-faire economics no longer serve us.

Though change is inevitable, we can all be resistant to it. It’s why it’s hard to change our diets, difficult to let go of poor relationships, and challenging to think differently about race, religion, or sexual orientation. Barack was right when he said that when things aren’t going well people “get bitter, they cling to guns or religion or antipathy to people who aren’t like them or anti-immigrant sentiment or anti-trade sentiment as a way to explain their frustrations.” We cling to whatever gives us power, authority, or “righteousness” over another. We all do.

True we are spiritual beings having a human existence. However, we tend to respond to the human, physical appearances first. When there is a call for change or a call to accept something that we don’t fully understand, when there is a call to do better than we have before, anything within us that would resist that change comes up. It must. Think about what it might have been like to be one of the first people to learn the earth is round. You would have been appalled and sad for the ignorant person who told you that. Until you learned something different. But, for many of us, the world is still flat in this regard: president’s still look a certain way; our differences in opinion put us in opposition; someone must be right and someone must be wrong.

What Obama has done, in part, is remind us all of our fullest potential, especially when we work together. He has reminded us of the importance of service, respect, diplomacy, and shared values. That it is not us-them, but us. We. The people. But, we’ve been out of practice and many of us have gotten used to the divide.

The night is upon us. We are finding it difficult to see each other’s point of view, and see the light within every single person; a light that never goes away. What goes away is our willingness to see it. There is this thing about free will (spiritual plane) and free markets (human). Free reign allows us to travel undisturbed as far away from our home as we desire, in pursuit of whatever flight of fancy or whim. As Rumi illuminated in “Reality and Appearance,”

“Anyone in whom the troublemaking self has died,
sun and cloud obey.
If you wish to shine like day,
burn up the night of self-existence.
Dissolve in the Being who is everything.”

When this night falls, and day breaks, I think we shall begin to see only light and we shall have a leader who believes and calls on the light within each of us. This is our choice.

Copyright © 2008 Garry Bevel

Since I am back on wireless courtesy of Airport Express (yes!) I’ve got two quickies for the YBP crowd:

1) Woman of color @ the DNC

Mamita Mala represents for WOC Boricua-ness (is that a word???) at the DNC. Read on, read on.

2) The Newest Michelle Obama

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Michelle LaVaughn Robinson Obama

I think that the many notes on Michelle Obama’s softer, subtler, warmer image are on point. It sucks that we live in a racist, heterosexist world. But I guess I just want to remind folks, and myself, that it is very likely that Michelle Obama is not getting “handled” in the particular way that people like to say. As though all of a sudden, Barack had to get her in check for the good of the campaign.

Right.

Her public image is under construction, for better or for worse, yes. But Michelle Obama is a–excuse my Français – grown, ass woman. She made it from the south side of Chicago, through Whitney Young Magnet High School (gratuitous shout out), Princeton, Harvard Law (in the 80s, dude!), and created a successful professional career for herself all on her own BEFORE she met Barack.

And she knows what image is. She knows how to use it. She would have to, after all, to GET that far.

So instead of saying Michelle Obama got handled, or is getting handled, or is being put in check, can we consider instead that, like any professional woman of color who has had to fight tooth, nail, fist, elbow and sometimes by spiked heel to get to the top of her field, perhaps she is making very conscious choices about how she wants to portray herself in this race. Choosing her clothes, makeup, rhetoric, and appearances accordingly (yes, in that order, because it is still a sexist society that sees a woman in that order), this has more to do with her being the successful, brilliant, and fierce Michelle we all fell in love with some months and years ago.

The fact she has worked the system so far and so well without appearing to lose touch with the realities of life for most people of color, Blacks in particular, is mind-boggling to me. I love it. I’m inspired by it.

I can’t say the same for every professional woman of color I know.

Which is maybe some in-house work we have to do even while we decry the sexism and racism that forces us to play chameleon between home/office/class/communityservice/daycare/happyhour.

Updated: The bloggers who wrote on Michelle Obama were linked to because they gave interesting perspectives that kept her changing image in mind. They were not linked to because they did or did not believe she was being “handled” in the way I am discussing. I was attempting to spread link love to those who were giving smart but varied opinions on her speech. Hope this clarifies!

As the hype machine continues to roll through the current political activities, the message from the candidates seems to get lost. While I appreciate the vigor from all of the credentialed blogs, especially those represented within the Afrosphere, sometimes unfiltered content is best.

And to that, I recommend to our readers our often forgotten friend C-SPAN.

C-SPAN.org

Not your daddy’s old political channel, their online web presence is quite impressive. Over at dnc08.c-span.org you can find unedited video of yesterday’s keynote speech by Michelle Obama, gavel-to-gavel coverage of today’s proceedings, a hub for all of the twitterers on the convention floor, and a nice breakdown of blogger reaction by state AND popularity!

So yeah, I may check CNN every now and then, pop over and see what JJP and Pam’s House Blend are up to, but I’m watching C-SPAN and absorbing c-span.org, for the record.

Color of Change: Now is the time to draw a line in the sand by putting Fox on notice that their behavior won’t be tolerated. In less than a minute, you can help us do that. Then invite your friends and family to do the same.

After Senator Obama won the nomination, he and his wife gave each other a “pound” in front of the cameras. Fox anchor E.D. Hill called the act of celebration a “terrorist fist jab.”

Michelle Obama Baby Mama

Fox: Obama’s Baby Mama? WTF.

Then last week, a Fox News on-screen graphic referred to Michelle Obama as “Obama’s baby mama”–slang used to describe the unmarried mother of a man’s child. It was a clear attempt to associate the Obamas with negative cultural stereotypes about Black people, an insult not only to Michelle Obama but to women and Black people everywhere.

Last month, a Fox guest pretended to confuse Obama’s name with “Osama,” associating him with terrorism, which has happened before on Fox. But then she goes further, stating that the assassination of both Osama and Obama would be a good thing. It is unconscionable for an organization that calls itself a news network to advocate for the assassination of a presidential candidate.

Black in America

Black in America on CNN, July 23rd and 24th

CNN – Black in America: In the next installment of CNN’s Black in America series, Soledad O’Brien examines the successes, struggles and complex issues faced by black men, women and families — 40 years after the death of Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. Watch July 23rd and 24th.

You can also join the discussion and share your video questions with some of the most influential names in black America over at iReport.

From Dorothee H.: I wanted to give you a heads up about a stroke awareness campaign that is reaching out specifically to the African American community because they are at DOUBLE the risk for stroke compared to white Americans. The Ad Council and American Stroke Association released this great PSA video to spread the word and help save lives in our community:

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Prevent Phone Fraud

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Let’s just reflect for a moment on the pride and affinity that we have for this country.

Okay, good. Depending on your life experiences, you may still need time or you were finished before I typed the word “country”. I’ll pray for the latter.

As we gear up for the July 4th holiday, we anticipate all that it means to be an American. We bring the flag out of the basement and hang it on the front porch.

America the Beautiful credit: Wikipedia

We buy $5 flag t-shirts at Old Navy for the entire family (they always seem to be marked down to $3 after the holiday). We plan a day at the beach or park. Let’s not forget the pride that captivates us as we watch the mass fireworks presentation and hear the symphony play the national anthem of the United States of America — The Star-Spangled Banner.

As a side note, Marvin Gaye’s 1983 rendition gives me serious goosebumps. How much pride do you feel when you see a photo of the two American athletes raising their fists in protest at the 1968 Summer Olympics in Mexico City?

Alright, side note complete.

The Black Power salute was a noted human rights protest and one of the most overtly political statements in the 110 year history of the modern Olympic Games. African American athletes Tommie Smith and John Carlos performed their Black Power salute at the 1968 Summer Olympics in Mexico City.

The Black Power Salute

Mrs. Michelle Obama (my new role model) has been heavily criticized for her comments about pride and her country. She told a group:

For the first time in my adult life, I’m really proud of my country.

She has defended those remarks and clarified that she was referring to politics and government policies in America and not pride in the American flag (pin) so to speak. She claims that more people are becoming involved in the political process than ever before.

The new chronicle in American pride is a ‘Got-cha!’ The right and far-right (although near-right is probably as guilty) have been smearing Mrs. Obama as a “Mad Black Woman” who can’t see the opportunties that Lady Liberty grants. (Also, Sen. Obama has been criticized for not wearing a flag pin, yet he wears one now and the critics have been muted).

Here’s the “got-cha”: Sen. John McCain has been quoted on several occasions in print and live media saying, “I didn’t really love America until I was deprived of her company”. Say what?!! Check out this piece on Huffington Post. The saga will continue. Oh, but I wish it would end.

We all have a close “loving” relationship with this nation. The land is beautiful, but the policies (and the questioning of other Americans’ pride) must change.

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