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Since I am back on wireless courtesy of Airport Express (yes!) I’ve got two quickies for the YBP crowd:

1) Woman of color @ the DNC

Mamita Mala represents for WOC Boricua-ness (is that a word???) at the DNC. Read on, read on.

2) The Newest Michelle Obama

Michelle LaVaughn Robinson Obama michelle-obama-democratic-convention-26aug2008-10
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Michelle LaVaughn Robinson Obama

I think that the many notes on Michelle Obama’s softer, subtler, warmer image are on point. It sucks that we live in a racist, heterosexist world. But I guess I just want to remind folks, and myself, that it is very likely that Michelle Obama is not getting “handled” in the particular way that people like to say. As though all of a sudden, Barack had to get her in check for the good of the campaign.

Right.

Her public image is under construction, for better or for worse, yes. But Michelle Obama is a–excuse my Français – grown, ass woman. She made it from the south side of Chicago, through Whitney Young Magnet High School (gratuitous shout out), Princeton, Harvard Law (in the 80s, dude!), and created a successful professional career for herself all on her own BEFORE she met Barack.

And she knows what image is. She knows how to use it. She would have to, after all, to GET that far.

So instead of saying Michelle Obama got handled, or is getting handled, or is being put in check, can we consider instead that, like any professional woman of color who has had to fight tooth, nail, fist, elbow and sometimes by spiked heel to get to the top of her field, perhaps she is making very conscious choices about how she wants to portray herself in this race. Choosing her clothes, makeup, rhetoric, and appearances accordingly (yes, in that order, because it is still a sexist society that sees a woman in that order), this has more to do with her being the successful, brilliant, and fierce Michelle we all fell in love with some months and years ago.

The fact she has worked the system so far and so well without appearing to lose touch with the realities of life for most people of color, Blacks in particular, is mind-boggling to me. I love it. I’m inspired by it.

I can’t say the same for every professional woman of color I know.

Which is maybe some in-house work we have to do even while we decry the sexism and racism that forces us to play chameleon between home/office/class/communityservice/daycare/happyhour.

Updated: The bloggers who wrote on Michelle Obama were linked to because they gave interesting perspectives that kept her changing image in mind. They were not linked to because they did or did not believe she was being “handled” in the way I am discussing. I was attempting to spread link love to those who were giving smart but varied opinions on her speech. Hope this clarifies!

Let’s just reflect for a moment on the pride and affinity that we have for this country.

Okay, good. Depending on your life experiences, you may still need time or you were finished before I typed the word “country”. I’ll pray for the latter.

As we gear up for the July 4th holiday, we anticipate all that it means to be an American. We bring the flag out of the basement and hang it on the front porch.

America the Beautiful credit: Wikipedia

We buy $5 flag t-shirts at Old Navy for the entire family (they always seem to be marked down to $3 after the holiday). We plan a day at the beach or park. Let’s not forget the pride that captivates us as we watch the mass fireworks presentation and hear the symphony play the national anthem of the United States of America — The Star-Spangled Banner.

As a side note, Marvin Gaye’s 1983 rendition gives me serious goosebumps. How much pride do you feel when you see a photo of the two American athletes raising their fists in protest at the 1968 Summer Olympics in Mexico City?

Alright, side note complete.

The Black Power salute was a noted human rights protest and one of the most overtly political statements in the 110 year history of the modern Olympic Games. African American athletes Tommie Smith and John Carlos performed their Black Power salute at the 1968 Summer Olympics in Mexico City.

The Black Power Salute

Mrs. Michelle Obama (my new role model) has been heavily criticized for her comments about pride and her country. She told a group:

For the first time in my adult life, I’m really proud of my country.

She has defended those remarks and clarified that she was referring to politics and government policies in America and not pride in the American flag (pin) so to speak. She claims that more people are becoming involved in the political process than ever before.

The new chronicle in American pride is a ‘Got-cha!’ The right and far-right (although near-right is probably as guilty) have been smearing Mrs. Obama as a “Mad Black Woman” who can’t see the opportunties that Lady Liberty grants. (Also, Sen. Obama has been criticized for not wearing a flag pin, yet he wears one now and the critics have been muted).

Here’s the “got-cha”: Sen. John McCain has been quoted on several occasions in print and live media saying, “I didn’t really love America until I was deprived of her company”. Say what?!! Check out this piece on Huffington Post. The saga will continue. Oh, but I wish it would end.

We all have a close “loving” relationship with this nation. The land is beautiful, but the policies (and the questioning of other Americans’ pride) must change.

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